Sunday, July 2, 2017

5 Signs You're Becoming A Winner

Jon Arpon | Mortgage Banker | Salesman | Owner of | I Write Stuff

1. Everything you do is basically something you don't want to do.

Allow me to explain, every day you wake up, the alarm is blaring in your ears, every muscle and fiber of your being is telling you to go back to sleep, but you get right up to do all the things you don't want to do. Because you know at the end of the day this is going to get you closer to your goal. There's a great quote out there that says, "Winners do all the things losers don't want to do." 

2. You realize you have some issues you need to get over.

Many people go through their entire lives being completely oblivious of their weaknesses. It takes a true winner to realize that you do have weaknesses that may need some work. By work, sometimes it just might mean damage control and delegate those weaknesses to others. But Overall a good sign is that you're acknowledging you might have some problems that need fixing which takes some self-analysis to the process of being a winner.

3. It's hard for you to trust people.

You might have a "large" social circle but the one's who truly know you are very limited. It may even only be one person you really truly trust. You don't like dealing with other people's bullshit and you may have been betrayed a couple times. You are no longer naive and you have adapted to the real world which you know is unforgiving. The ones you do trust have your unquestionable and unconditional loyalty. Because they're worth it.

4. You feel anxious or confused about your future.

You have an "A-Type" personality but many times you may feel extremely insecure about what's going on in your life. You may feel you might not be walking down the right path and you live in much more uncertainty than most people you know. The reason why this is a sign of a winner because everything you've ever wanted is outside of your comfort zone. If you don't put yourself in a position of uncomfortableness on your own accord life will give you plenty of reasons to get out of it. This is a true sign you are becoming a winner.

5. You always feel bored and unsatisfied.

There will always be something more you'd like to achieve, it's not wrong to feel bored because of the same routines. One of my very early mentors who's net worth is about $25 million says "you have to master the mundane. When I'm dialing out hundreds of calls a day, rejection at every corner, it's mundane and sometimes depressing. But that's the difference between the winner and the loser because no matter how boring, mundane, or repetitive the winner knows that these things must be done to become successful in the future. 

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